/sigh.....again *disclaimer NOT POSITIVE* in A Day in the Life of Me

First SOME positive stuff.. We had our second wedding anniversary yesterday. We went out for Mexican. Something we have only ever had once, but the first time the meal was ruined by a whinger. Was a really good meal, it was a splurge, and I enjoyed an entire pitcher of Sangria to myself.

now the not so positive stuff.... couple things bugging me today.

1- dads diagnoses. It’s killing me watching him AND mom struggle with this, and there’s not much I can do. Wednesday they were up for an appointment with the surgeon, and she told him that surgery is NOT an option. Not only due to his age, but also the location of the mass.
Radiation and chemo only.

I am trying to make sure i am there for all appointments. And also having meals ready for when they are here either before or after the appointments. Figure it’s on less thing to worry about.

This is the only place I have written about the fact that he’s been diagnosed with cancer.
Point #2

2- There are certain ppl in our life that do not know everything going on. That being said we have stresses with them now too.
They have finally been told what we think of there son, and we think it has gotten us booted to the shit list.
Money that was “promised” 3 weeks ago showed up Monday, and I was set up a month ago that I was supposed to go out tonight and nothing was said to me at all through the week about it, and looks like I was dis-invited as I know they went without me after I had my schedule arranged to go.

Sorry, I can’t seem to write a cheery post lately. Don’t really have a lot of “good” going on at the moment.