i know he's hurtin too but. in yes i'm aware it's 2016.

so right. the last time I talked to evan was almost 2 wks. ago this coming Fri. as i’ve mentioned. and he’d just gotten out of jail the day before [which was thurs.] and presumably was back in detox again.
so I have this thing of whenever people ask if they can do something but they’re really asking if it’s ok to do it i want to answer w/ ‘it’s ok’. so when we were on the phone evan asked me something [and right now i don’t want to go into what] but he asked it in the way I described above. and i’m like ‘it’s ok’ and he’s like ‘you don’t know how good it feels to hear you say that’. which to me means he’s hurtin and needs wants comfort.
well again he evidently can’t just state that. he has to go stating it in some roundabout way. the guy hasn’t had it easy. [as evidenced by the fact that he keeps drinking. yeah i told people he was the one that drank that much cause i didn’t want to tell anyone it was actually me. um but anyway]. His dad passed 3 yrs. ago next month our best friend 3.5..........and I almost.......well. i won’t gointo that right now but I did remember more of that night. and i don’t know when the terrible thing happened. to respect confidentiality and privacy i won’t put what ‘the terrible thing’ was.
so yeah. he hasn’t had it easy. right and neither have i. and i know he’s hurtin but. i can’t, anymore. which is really my only point.