kate news. in yes i'm aware it's 2016.

so again Kate’s my sister. um so ..........well she was supposed to have a bbq at her place on...........uh last Thurs. but my uncle who’s in town had something else at the same time the bbq was.at. so we didn’t have it and it’s been reschedule for this Thurs. oh yeah my uncle was coming to the bbq.
um she’s been in contact w/ a couple people about the new job thing. She’s still working at the dance studio. makes sense to do that while looking for a new job. to keep the one you have. [not that i have experience w/ this as i’ve never had to earn enough to make a living and i’ve only ever had 1 paying job. oh i have news on this btw. [but] more on that later]. um a few wks. ago she had this as she called it ‘horrible’ meeting w/ her boss. um and i don’t think she’s dating. although this guy Mike who.well like 2 yrs. ago she worked at Thrive which is this shared working space type thing. anyway. so they had an event and Mike was the bartender for it. i met him. i mean not at the event on.another day my sister was working there. nice guy quiet. and he’s still a nice guy. so recently he helped her out when she got reallydrunk. and like. he was there and he was her company. he didn’t..........do anything to her.
He just keeps getting better from the stories she tells me. he’s not perfect but who is right? [perfect people are boring and i don’t want to meet them.or boring people in general. it’s like when people go ‘i want to meet interesting people’.er well i would hope]. i don’t really know Mike but wow.
oh so she’s been drinking well..........more than usual. and it’s interesting since alcohol is technically a drug. she’s of age she’s 26 [apparently. i thought she was 25.which well she was at one point just not anymore. no like on her birthday which was in jan. i thought she’d turned 25.but no] and like she’ll tell me how she’s doing w/ the drinking. and i used to drink a lot um maybe 2 yrs. ago. no wait 3 yeah a little over 3. [well ok so i still drink just not as much usually]. but i’m not going to like tell her that. we’ve never talked about that part of my life.it’s actually not something I talk about w/ most people and certainly not her. but like as an addict myself I relate to her.but i don’t make it seem like i do.it’s weird. like i’ll tell her stuff like ‘yeah a lot of people are like that’ as in yeah a lot of people drink.or w/e and don’t ever include myself in that.
So the other day she brought up my hair. which i’m really sens. about and icould tell her that via textmail but a we’re not that close which i’m ok w/ and 2 i don’t want to bring up the thing i don’t want.brought up. ya know that defeats the purpose of people.not ever bringing it up. also c it’s a change and we all know how i am w/ those. well ok she said we should get me a new hat. and i told her I like this hat the hat I have. [i have a gray fedora btw] yeah unless i’m showering or changing i always wear a hat. i can count on 1 hand the # of people that would be allowed to see my hair. i always get uncomfortable when people bring it up. or hair in general cause then i feel like they’ll mention my hair so. which is why i don’t mention others’ hair. i could be there scantily clad and that’d be fine.but what wouldn’t be is me not wearing a hat. [not that i’m scantily clad at my house. no that’s a general ‘there’]. um so yeah that was uncomfortable. there’s more than 1 way to say no to something though........or to somehow let people know w/o actually letting them know. that you don’t want something brought up. thing is most people aren’t that perceptive and i really wish they were. if it’s clear someone doesn’t want to talk about something then don’t keep bringing it up. see this is one of the problems i had w/ stephanie. I remember one time when i was living there.i didn’t want to talk about somethign. and i told her [stephanie] that and she goes ‘i know but we need to’. yes at some point later not when i’m already put out. and another time we were in my room and I was put out so I went into the living room to get some space and she.went w/ me. like no i’m doing this to get away from you. ya know it’s like after someone who’s put out [Person A] says they need to go on a walk and the other person spends 5 mins. of their damn time trying to convince Person A that they don’t. like no just letme get away from you for awhile ad then i’ll be fine. but the more someone aggravates someone who’s already put out well..........it.doesn’t work. yes and stephanie was that person.who would spend 5 mins. of their time.............the worst thing someone can do in that situation is not let the person leave.like omygod that only makes it worse. [this never actually happened. i wasn’t like ‘ok so i’ma leave now’ and she spend 5 mins. of our time trying to convince me ididn’t. no this isn’t a literal thing].
yes but unlike stephanie i actually want, to talk to my sister. just not about my hair.which is fine. i actually like her. [again my sister] she’s overall a cool chick. she’s intelligent and deep and nice and..........quiet. and stephanie wasn’t.quiet so. no i generally didn’t want to talk to her. also i like my sister’s cooking.
um anyway.
i’m really not that verbal a person in terms of um.verbalising things. like i’d much rather write/emai/text something than verbalise it. is what i’m trying to get at. [there that made sense].
uh so yeah that’s news from my sister’s end.which was the point to all this.