It's Never The End Of It, Is It? in meh...

I wonder where my daughter went wrong in falling for this dude she fell for? I was on my way to pick her up from the light rail station when she called and she was crying. It’s dark outside, I’ve got my son with me, and she’s on the phone crying and bawling and I immediately think that she’s been mugged or robbed or hurt…

She crying over this raggedy, no account, good for nothing, rusty ass motherfucker.

I thought it was over a long time ago. He talked her into living with him and his dad to which I was going to ask what his name was so I could internet search him. He said he’s been lying. I don’t doubt it but I don’t know about what either. It’s most likely having to do with this other woman that he seems to have pitted against my daughter.

She randomly cries. If you saw her, you can see in her sadness that she’s upset about not just him, but her life as a whole. I’m trying my best, my absolute BEST to not lecture her. I’m lying and telling myself that I just don’t care about her relationship that much. I want her to stop talking to him all together. I want her to stop taking his calls and texts messages, shit like that. Most importantly, EYE DON’T WANT TO BE DRAGGED INTO THIS SHIT.

Now mind you, I had to get up and go to work today. I’m trying to go to sleep, but she comes in my room and asks if I could talk to him. I turn around in the dark and say talk to who?? Then she walks out. I couldn’t sleep because I thought they were outside arguing and I just couldn’t hear them. She was sitting outside, but he wasn’t there. At one point though, she did leave and jumped in a car with someone, after she came back in, I asked if she was leaving back out to which she said no. And so I went to bed.

My niece was in an abusive relationship. She was stuck on stupid. I think she still is, but maybe she’s gotten better. My daughter once told me that she didn’t respect her cousin because she takes his abuse and keeps going back to him. Well he may not be hitting my daughter, but he is emotionally abusing her. She is strong willed, but at the same time where he is concerned, not so much and it makes me sad for her.

I need my baby to have some stability in her life.

::heavy, deep, sighs:

Kindest regards,
Sister