Boring in Musings and Daily Events

Today was awfully boring. Work was slow. It sometimes picked up but not really. My boyfriend is out so I have no one to talk to tonight either.

sigh

I’m a little annoyed with him. He doesn’t ever want to come down here because he is afraid of falling asleep at the wheel when driving back. But like, then he’s okay to go out with his friends?

So let’s compromise right? That’s what couples should do. I’m like well why don’t you come over for dinner tomorrow (we eat at like 2pm on Sundays). We can enjoy a meal, go out for a little bit then he can go home at a proper hour. And he says, “I’ll think about it.”

What is there to think about? Either you want to come down and see me or you don’t. I don’t like that. I always take the train up to see him. He’s barely come down here. I don’t think that’s fair at all.

Whatever.

I’m also annoyed with M. We didn’t talk today but I’m really close with his sister-in-law Theresa. She works with me every weekend and we’ve become really, really close. Anyway, so she told me Tom was texting her being a total dick about her kids. She has 2 older (15 and 11) boys. One of them is in a bad place (his father suddenly dies, moves from GA to here in teh middle of highschool) like he’s been through a lot. He has anger issues. He’s getting help for it but still it’s hard. So he’s texting her bitching about them and being like control you’re kids (they were fighting…as brother’s do). She’s now flustered and worried because her older one is acting up again, he walked out and no one can find him, she’s overwhelmed at work 30 minutes away, and now she has M on her ass bitching.

Dude, you don’t have kids so you don’t get it but seriously have some empathy. It’s hard being a single mom, with a part-time job, with two emotionally messed up teenage boys, still mourning your husbands death, and living basically off of the charity of others.

Don’t get me wrong. M does a lot for her. He really stepped up and took care of her when he didn’t have to. But still....don’t make this harder for her. He always gives her shit about her older son. He doesn’t like the kid and everyone knows it.

I don’t know it’s just shitty. I don’t like that.

Anyway, I should go an apply for jobs. I’ll write more whenever I get to it.