it's like the song says don't patronise in The Wonderland Years: 2015. Done.

bonnie raitt can’t make you love me. good song.

‘alrite so. i was at safeway doing what every other person there does which is.um. grocery shopping. and i’m thinking ok well if i’m getting rice and burritos i should get a basket. so that was all fine. and they didn’t have them by the one exit so i went to the other [which, evidently, was the ‘wrong’ thing to do. yeah, well, if that was an issue before today it was never mentioned. anyway. not the main point]. and the lady said something like ‘do you need help?’. ok i know i’m small and look young.er than i am but don’t fukin patronise me. seriously please don’t ask if i ‘need’ help. i am 28 yrs. old no i do not need help. don’t talk down to me like that. [or actually in any other way unless we’re friends and we both know it’s ok. and joking or w/e. but that’s different]. which is another thing that bothered me about the whole. incident. and then. stuff went down.’