Is it weird... in Musings and Daily Events

This is going to be slightly risque but not necessarily sexy.

So I was really wondering about this in the morning when I was brushing my teeth and again in the car.

But is it weird that E and I don’t have sex all that much? I mean intercourse. Like, vaginal sex. Most of the time it’s blowjobs and foreplay. It’s always been like that with us. I don’t have a problem with it. Because he’s on the smaller side, vaginal sex isn’t the most pleasurable thing we can do. We’ve talked about it actually. He ranked it as Oral, Anal, Vaginal (from most to least). Not that vag isn’t awesome or anything and it does happen. He just prefers my mouth and ass apparently. I would usually worry about maybe I’m not tight enough but I know that isn’t the case. He can barely get two fingers in without a good amount of stretching. We’re both on the heavier side so missionary is uncomfortable for me, he loves it when I’m on top but I feel awkward. The only time we both really really enjoy it is when he bends me over. Now I love anal with him. It’s never uncomfortable (because he’s not massive) and he gets so into it. And I mean who doesn’t like foreplay?

I guess I’m just used to Dan. He and I had sex all the time. I was always on top. However, I was ALWAYS on top. Foreplay wasn’t a thing, he didn’t like blowjobs, he didn’t like eating out, and he wasn’t fond of bending me over or missionary. It got boring towards the end.

So I’m not complaining by any means. It works for us. But I guess I’m just wondering if anyone else’s sex life is similar, where the main attraction isn’t necessarily intercourse, so much as everything leading up to it.