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Ciara & Russell Wilson.

I think they make a cute couple. Them committing to not have sex and get to know each other thoroughly makes them a wonderful couple. Not many people will do that.

The issue of her ex, Future (who by the way looks like Mr.K from the old school letter people) being spiteful of her because Russell is in their son’s life is really petty especially if Russell is treating the boy well.

When I was a new mother, I had an issue like Future’s. My kids father and I broke up shortly after my daughter was born. Every woman he dated after that had children and he was always trying to incorporate her into their thing. I was furious because I felt as though he was playing family with other women, their kids and MY child which made me think there was something wrong with me. I was called a “bad baby momma” but my issue was that I wasn’t ready to let go of him. I am fiercely protective of my children and for someone else to come along and basically try to move me out of the way like I’m a bad mother just made me livid. I didn’t want him parading woman after woman in my children’s presence if he wasn’t going to be serious with them. My kids don’t need to see your parade of whores. That was my only problem. I didn’t date and if I did these guys never met my kids. My kids met one guy by mistake and another because I thought we were going to make it.

However…

As my children got older I didn’t care as much about his other women trying to take my kids from me and play mom because, I knew I would win out every time. I no longer felt for him because one day I woke up and realized he was a walking empty promise not worthy of me and not the right one for me. There’s this thing going around that says, “Women talk about their ‘baby daddy’s‘ calling them ain’t shit, but you knew he wasn’t shit when you laid down with him.” I dispute that because, in actuality, we as women don’t purposely laydown and try and continue a relationship with someone that we rightfully KNOW ain’t shit. We will do that, or at least I have done that, with one nighters that I don’t want to nor expect to hear from again. So the argument of him not being shit or not doesn’t really matter then does it?

The internet is full of dime store philosphy, geared to make people like me feel less than intelligent because of mistake we’ve made. I say to hell with all of you and your memes. Y’all ain’t shit. How about that?? LOL

And with that, my day has come to an end.
Peace, love and grits.

Kindest regards,
Sister