Entry 66: Genuinely Seeking Input in Much Ado About Nothing

  • March 2, 2025, 5:21 p.m.
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I am genuinely seeking input on this matter so please feel free to leave your say in the comments.

Lent starts in the coming week. Fat Tuesday is March 4th, Ash Wednesday is March 5th (and Daylight Savings Time is March 9th). Traditionally, Lent involves rituals of sacrifice amongst some Christian Denominations. A brief history:

Beginning about six weeks before Easter, Lent is a time traditionally set aside for fasting, prayer, and reflection in preparation to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ. While observed for centuries by Catholic, Orthodox, Lutheran, Anglican, Episcopal, and Methodist Christians (and certainly others), Lenten traditions and practices have evolved over time. Historians generally agree that the 40-day period before Easter, known as Lent, emerged shortly following the Council of Nicea in 325 AD. Earliest observances of Lent seem to have focused particularly on the practice of fasting. The emergence of various new Christian movements during the Protestant Reformation dramatically affected the tradition of Lent. While some Protestants continued to observe Lent, such as the Lutherans, some like the newly emerged Calvinists criticized the annual rite, claiming there was no scriptural basis for it. They condemned Lent as “man’s” tradition and a works-based vanity. But over the years, Lent has become less strict in almost every western tradition. In the Catholic Church, for example, the number of obligatory fasting days decreased incrementally from six days a week to three, and then eventually, to just two in the whole season of Lent: Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. The well known “fish on Friday” tradition began in the United States in 1966 when the Pope affirmed the abstinence from “flesh” on Fridays. In every tradition, however, the act of “giving something up” has remained strong. For all of these changes, though, the tradition of Lent is still largely recognizable to what it was nearly 2,000 years ago.

Now, Lent has meant different kinds of sacrifice to different people. Most of the Catholics I work with are still strict about Fish on Friday. Few of them realize why other than “The Pope said” but that is for them to embrace. Many of the Lutherans I have known in my life “give something up” for Lent. Oftentimes it can be something as “silly” as Chocolate; but sometimes it can be something more meaningful. Buffy in the height of her teenaged years gave up Diet Mountain Dew and Chocolate Shakes.... her two “after school de-stress coping mechanisms” in an effort to center her mind and spirit on prayer and devotion as a “de-stress” focus. Ultimately, for those who practice- Lent and the actions taken in/due to Lent is supposed to be an exercise in reminding us daily of our devotion to our faith, and strengthening our understanding of that devotion.

It is in this spirit that I seek input.

For many, removing something from their lives temporarily is the Go To Move. “I’ll stop drinking” which usually becomes “I’ll stop drinking brown liquors” which then becomes “I’ll stop drinking Whiskey” and the erosion of the concept from there. But I would argue that removal needn’t be the only path to devotion. Sometimes adding something healthy could be the proper path. For some it would be “I’ll add a daily devotional each morning” or “I’ll make sure to read all 4 Gospels before Easter.” So, there are ways to observe the Lent Season by either giving something up or by adding something to. Without revealing what, I would be interested to know people’s thoughts.

(1) Is it acceptable to add instead of remove to recognize Lent? Why or Why Not?
(2) Whether you find it acceptable or not; does it change how you view the Season of Lent or the Spirit of Lent?
(3) If you’re on the fence, would “1 remove an 1 add” change your opinion? To follow tradition while also modifying tradition?
(4) If you were contemplating “Remove or Add” which would you select?
(5) Finally, if there were a card game where you were able to select your suit - whichever suit you selected were the cards you were trying to obtain in the game - what suit would you select?


HappyAtLast March 02, 2025

I think when I use Lent as an excuse to give up something it's really self-serving and not in the spirit of sacrifice. True fasting is sacrifice, but I don't eat meat on Friday and then consume a veggie pizza...
I don't have any good examples of 'doing' although reading to seniors in a nursing home, or weeding someone's garden come to mind.
Card suits---depends on the day, today I think I would choose clubs
So , basically, I think Add is the more Christian option.

Jodie March 02, 2025

I am not Christian so I really don't know the history. But I would think that lent is suppose to make your life better and take out the negitve. Like alcohol or eat more healthy or quit smoking or stop taking pills. And once you do that the adding is easier and you feel much better. And this should be a forever thing not just for 40 days. Because after three weeks it becomes a habit and a way of life.

feels like hope March 02, 2025

I'm a former priest (and former Catholic, so take it with a pinch of salt). It's absolutely acceptable to add something. In a official sense, I would agree with Q3 - add something in addition to giving something up, but really as you've already said Lent is about a great deal more than just fasting / giving something up, it has just been diluted down to that in a modern sense. Really, it is about deepening and renewing your personal relationship with God in preparation for Easter.

I doubt that giving up chocolate, for example, is really enough of a sacrifice to make anyone feel much of anything other than slight resentment towards God! However, adding in prayer, charity work, a focus on health (mental or physical), journaling... whatever works for you, yes absolutely grand.

I remember doing a Sunday school project that was called lent is for kindness, and they were challenged to do an act of kindness every day. Another where you donate one thing to a foodbank everyday. So if I was personally choosing, I'd go for add. Some of my unhealthiest times spiritually speaking have been when I tried so hard to restrict and "give up" things that I made myself very, very unwell. I don't think that's exactly Gods Big Plan.

As for a card suit... I guess hearts?? I have no logical reason.

Amaryllis March 02, 2025

Spades

I've tried so many different motivational systems. The best have been pomodoro and ADHD medication. If you can get some motivation from adding something at Lent, do it!

hippiechica15 March 03, 2025

I grew up in a Catholic family but not an especially strict one (I did attend a Catholic elementary school for 4 years) so we knew the concept of giving something up for Lent but no one really enforced it. I actually was thinking about this, because I was out with a Catholic friend who mentioned giving up social media and sugar. And I thought hmm is there anything taking me away from life that I could cut down on or give up? Should I go old school Italian and give up eggs? (it was pretty common, I wonder if it was because of seasonality of egg laying? Interesting nonetheless!) And then I immediately went to “But is there then some kind of community involvement I can add that will benefit me AND others?” Because I do think that is both more useful AND a way to be closer to “God.” In my view God is just the bond we have with each other in this world and how we take care of one another. So basically I am pro adding something to your life, esp that connects you to your community, and also pro trying to curb a bad habit along with fostering a new one. Just giving something up (esp in the ways people tend to, ie this “bad” food) goes the way of a New Year’s Resolution.

Rhapsody in Purple March 07, 2025

I try to do something that will try to make me a better person or improve my relationship with God or the people around me.
At school they usually encouraged us to give up something and donate that money saved from giving up the thing to Caritas (Catholic international aid, not sure what it’s called in America)

Rhapsody in Purple March 07, 2025

And Hearts.

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