My little brother went to the crazy house. in Since OD is shutting down....

Alright so yesterday I was on the phone with my Mom and I could tell things were tense in their house. My little brother was threatening to kill my Mom, cussing her out and then I heard a loud crash, he had apparently broke one of her lamps and was just getting to the point where no one could deal with it. My Dad got on the phone and told me he just couldn’t live like this and blah blah blah so after my Mom asked me to call the cops, I did. Well, my Dad found out the cops were coming so he took Jr and left to their friends house down the road from where they live! He is sick of my little brother and everything but doesn’t want him to get any kind of help either.

Well the cops came and my Mom called them and told my Dad to bring Jr back right away. Needless to say, they took him to the crazy house. He went willingly of course and has now been there since yesterday about 2pm. It’s just really sad that the only way he can get a break from my parents is to go there. He even told my Dad’s friend he wanted to go there. What makes me really sad is that when he gets out, he’s gonna go right back to the same situation!!! I also think it’s bullshit that my Dad is the reason why my little brother is so messed up and yet, he doesn’t have to take any responsibility for it! The cops were even talking about taking him as well but then once they talked to him, he convinced them that he was fine.

I just don’t know what to say or do about this anymore other than I’m probably going to change my number and completely cut ties with them. This situation has just completely out of control and it’s never going to change. My Mom also has no interest or intention of getting or keeping a job and because there’s no money, they had to pawn JR’s video games and lost them so he has nothing to do so then he acts out. I just think this whole cycle is a fucking joke and my parents sit there and act like they have done nothing to make JR act the way he does when they are 100% in the fucking wrong! The kid has nothing to do and they won’t do anything to help him become independent so he’s just trapped out there!

Then, I get super pissed because she had the nerve to ask me for money! I had given them a total of $60 last week (which would have paid my light bill) and I flipped out on her telling her I was sick of having to give them money every time I heard from them and she of course got all pissed about it but then had the nerve to ask me to bring her cigarettes! Like, are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!!? I honestly get so tired of them mooching and I refuse to give them any more money! I gave them gas, cigarettes and beer to hang out with them last Saturday and then had to turn around and give them gas again so that she was able to help me out with having to take my car to the shop and even though I flipped out on her because I’m sick of giving them money, she has the nerve to ask yet AGAIN?!!?!? Like, wow! Just wow!

Oh and I had to take my car to the other shop on Friday where they charged me $440 to do my brakes and an oil change. I get my car back and they had destroyed my handicapped sign (I’m not handicapped but I’ve had it awhile so I’m able to have a place to park when I’m at home) so I get in my car and see it in pieces sitting on my passenger seat. Well I go to make my car payment and the salesman that took my payment didn’t understand why I was so angry and then said I needed to talk to the other salesman about my bill. Um, ok well that’s going to have to wait until Monday as he wasn’t there so I’ve had to worry about this all weekend because I don’t have his cell phone number to get it straightened out. I’m very angry about this whole situation because I’ve been made to feel like I have no say over my car when it goes to their shop but I’m stuck paying this enormous bill?! I’m also worried that if they don’t put it on the end of my loan, I’m going to have to figure out how to come up with all of that money and that’s bullshit. Someone should have called me and let me know what’s going on so I was at least made aware of how badly I was getting ripped off. I have never gotten brakes done professionally and never thought in my wildest dreams I would get charged $400 for it?!

Right now I just want to get this fucking car paid off so I don’t have to take it to their shop anymore and I can actually have say over things. I’m very angry that I didn’t even get to know why my handicapped sign got ruined until I called and made the receptionist ask the fucking mechanic! Shouldn’t they have told me right away when I came to get the fucking car? I also think it’s bullshit that when I walked in, I saw her putting my car back on my lanyard and didn’t bother to tell me why they had taken it off in the first place?! I’m really uncomfortable with all of this shit and I’m probably just gonna go down and talk to my salesman tomorrow after class instead of calling because I’m really upset about all of this. I should have asked about the key thing when I got there but there was this loud, obnoxious bitch in front of me that wouldn’t shut up so by the time it was my turn to get waited on, I had forgot about the key thing and just wanted to get my car and go.

I just hate feeling like I have no say over anything in any aspect of my life and this car thing takes the fucking cake. It’s just sad that it’s been a good weekend where I’ve actually gotten sleep and have had no homework but I’ve had to be upset over what’s gone on with my car situation. It’s just bullshit that they did whatever they wanted with my car and nobody bothered to call me and at least let me know how much it’s going to cost! Um excuse me, that is my business considering I have to pay for it! I also feel that I was overcharged like a motherfucker on an oil change and a brake job. I mean yeah they had to do all brakes but I even told them I would wait on the oil change. She said that my car lot told them to go ahead and do it because it was so over but again, someone should have called me and let me know what the fuck is going on! Then, when I go to make my payment, I don’t get the warmest reception from the asshole who waiting on me and was like, “your gonna have to call your salesman on Monday and figure out what you are going to do about this bill” like I am trying to rip them off or something when I’ve done NOTHING to make them believe I would ever not pay! I’ve paid faithfully on this car since I bought it back in January so I don’t appreciate someone acting like I’m trying to get away without paying for repairs! I’ve gone fucking broke to pay for this piece of shit car that’s not even worth what I’m paying for it and they act like I’m trying to rip them off?!?!?!

I’m now just sitting here. I need to make breakfast but I have slight stomachache so I think I’m gonna wait. I’m anxiously awaiting tomorrow so I can talk to my salesman and get this shit straightened out with my car. I just want him to know how angry I am about not being treated fairly and that I wish he would have called me about the damn bill. I just hate feeling like I have no say over anything. I’m sick of being poor and not being able to just pay the car off and start focusing on buying a house so I don’t have people in my financial business like they are. I hate being on housing because they are so fucking nosy! I even had to sign something so that they could call my school and verify my financial aid when that money is for education, not for rent?! Like are you kidding me?! How nosy can people fucking be!