Husband argues,overdrafts card,messes up car,I almost arrested in Life of a cat mom

I told my husband not to spend money that moms account was close to negatives me being in the hospital last Saturday with a stroke he jerked my mom’s card from my wallet and ran off. He husband is oppositional defiant disorder he doesn’t care. I tried to stop him but security wouldn’t let me chase him where I had a stroke I wasn’t allowed to leave the floor. He turned off his phone and decided even though I begged him to check the account and use the cash we have stored in our bedroom he didn’t listen. He overdrafted the bank account buying dinner for him and his friends and groceries for the house. He took $100 out of moms account not even checking the account. I was in the hospital I had no idea what was going on.

After I got out of the hospital my husband told me I needed to go to the park and walk my cat. I told him I am exhausted I need to sleep he kept arguing with me until he drug Emily into it they both pressured me to walk. My arm and face was still numb I begged to rest instead him and Emily drug me from the bed I cried but I am so tired. They took our cat Cinder to the park we walked him. I cried a little while Talan and Emily walked Cinder in front of me.

I took a week off for my medical issue during this time my husband mentioned my car was having problems and demanded money. After he took money from my account to pay phone bill and internet bill he was pissed I only had $200 he asked where did all my money go? I make $600 a paycheck. He refuses to work and gets pissed when I don’t have enough money. He swore I was hiding money and went through my wallet to find $10 in tips said I was a liar that I am stashing money.

After I got out the hospital I told him keep the car close to the house I can’t afford to fix it. He told me fuck you and decided to visit Thurmond twice to go swimming. I told him no for him to scream he is trapped by me in this house and he is not my slave. He said where he is married to me he has the right to use the car and do what he wanrs. I just wanted to sleep my husband forced me to go swimming and got upset that I was so exhausted I fell asleep in the car. I have been running 20 hours a day between work and running his chores and trying to keep him happy.

I was trying to come home from work fell asleep at a stop light and drifted my car into back of man’s car. The man cussed me out I mean it’s understandable. I pulled out my insurance I told him there is no damage but feel free to call the cops. The man admitted he had no insurance didn’t want to press charges or put it on insurance. I told him ok have a nice day. He drove away.

I told my husband I fell asleep behind the wheel. He apparently planned to go swimming with Emily I said but I am tired the car is tearing up. He reminded me he owns the car too has the right to use it in the middle of him cussing me I had the urge to suck start a shot gun. Talan drove the car Emily thought it was funny the transmission was whining. I cried he is ruining my vehicle he told me fuck you

The next day on the way home from work there was a loud pop the oil light came on I drifted it to Sheets.gas station. I called my husband asking what tow company does he want me to use the people as the gas station told me they were going to arrest me for trespassing. My husband was cussing me on the phone and the employee called cops on me. I cried saying my car is broke down I am just trying to call a tow truck. Why impound my car? My husband was cussing in my ear threatening to beat the employee. The officer walked up with handcuffs with tears rolling down my eyes I said but the tow truck is coming. I want to leave it’s just my car is broke down! The employee apologized called cop off of me he proceeded to arrest other people..wtf.

The tow truck brought me home. My husband said it was my fault the car tore up. I reminded him I told him no taking the car to Thurmond and he acted like a bastard till he got his way.

I gathered my things and lived at the hotel because I got to work at 4 am. My husband swore u was having an affair I told him he broke my car. Since he won’t work I got to.

When Mom got paid this time. Tom asked for money to pay his bills and to fix mom’s truck. I told him not a single dollar is being shared till every one of Mom’s bills are paid. He spent a lot of moms money get get him tires, and new jacks for him and repairs on moms truck. He helped overdraft moms account.. this month all moms bills were paid and I told Talan and Tom overdraft that account again I will beat their asses! They don’t understand requests so I guess I have to give threats.

I got to figure out a way to afford to fix my car how in the fuck and I supposed to do this. I need to call Emily to see if she can take me to my Drs appointment because I no longer have a running vehicle.. thanks Talan when it would get out of first Talan kept cussing slamming and gas pedal,punching my glass trying to break it. I begged him to stop. He has a two ton temper tantrum. This bitch has never grown up. I am fucking fed up.