wow i need to update in Torridaussity Two

  • Oct. 21, 2014, 1:28 a.m.
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So where to start...... second chance Matt is no more. He would go for long amounts of time and not contact me and then tell me he missed me. He told me he wanted to be engaged in a year and so to make along story short I stood up for myself and told him all my concerns
1. He never texts first
2. He avoided actually making plans for a date whenever I brought it up.
3. He doesn’t actually make an effort to get to know me or to call me
Those are the top 3. I texted all the time tried to make a date and get him to call. After telling him this all through text, he says it’s because he felt I wasn’t interested. He argued that he didn’t get some of my texts and made up other lame excuses and when I didn’t accept them he just left the conversation so to speak. I felt numb about him after that so I didn’t try to contact him again. He texted me two days later saying how are you, as if nothing had changed. I said fine surprised to hear from you since you just stopped talking the other night and I have gotten no response. I think he got it that I am done with his BS. I don’t know what his game was but I’m done playing.

Other news my mom fell on Sunday and is now in the hospital. Her surgery site seems to be okay, but her blood was too thin and she has a ton of soft tissue damage. She is in so much pain and is getting depressed. I can’t stand seeing her this way.

Also the doctors have said my grandfather could die at any time now, his heart keeps getting worse. I don’t even want to think about this, it’s too much.

Work is okay and for fun, I have done two more painting classes and will post pictures next. Thanks for all your comments and prayers and love.


Dictynna October 21, 2014

Sorry to hear about your grandfather ;( But I'm glad your mum wasn't too badly hurt.

Second chance Matt sounds like he was taking the piss a bit! Glad you told him what's what.

Always Laughing Dictynna ⋅ October 21, 2014

Thanks :-)

Azzura October 21, 2014

Sometimes all you can do is exit the boxing ring. Leave the game. Throw your hands up and walk away. No harm no foul.

Deleted user October 22, 2014

Sorry to hear that your Mom fell but glad she is okay. That is weird that the Dr said that about your Grandfather...any of us could die at any time and the elderly is always any day with the ailments. I just think they could have said that better. About that guy...he is not worth your time...it is all about priorities and if he can't make you one of them to return texts etc...then he can eff off out of your life. I choose to think that there is someone out there that will love you and want you all the time :)

Always Laughing Deleted user ⋅ October 22, 2014

thanks dear I choose to think so too.

WomanOfSteele October 22, 2014

I'm glad you stood up for yourself! Sounds like he was just wanting things on his own terms and that's just NOT going to work. Good for you!

So sorry about your mom! Poor thing!

Can't wait to see the new paintings :)

Always Laughing WomanOfSteele ⋅ October 22, 2014

I did post the entry with the paintings let me know if it didn't work

Always Laughing WomanOfSteele ⋅ October 22, 2014

i found out what was wrong, I had it on private

WomanOfSteele Always Laughing ⋅ October 22, 2014

Oh haha I'll check it out!

Deleted user October 23, 2014

Sorry to hear about Matt. You did the right thing but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
I'm so sorry about your mom. I hope she heals up soon, these are trying times. I sincerely hope your grandpa holds on a bit longer.

Always Laughing Deleted user ⋅ October 23, 2014

Thanks, grandpa is being checked to see if he can have a procedure done to help the valve in his heart.

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