Andy in 2020s

I finally decided to contact Andy from my second Facebook account and here’s what I told him.

You’ve probably realized I’ve chosen to cut ties with you. I can assure you that my reasons aren’t likely what you think they are. I could sit here and list the many reasons but I’m not going to bother to waste your time and mine. You won’t get half of it and the other half you’ll forget due to your memory issues. First, I don’t like you but I do love you. I’ve always loved you and I always will and I will always hope for the best for you and that you get everything and more that you ever wanted in life. Second, I’ve walked away from you, your sister-in-law has walked away from you, Ken has, and many others have. Perhaps this is a telltale sign that the issue is you? Well, I guess that’s for you to decide. Thirdly, I’m not coming back in a few years. I’m going to reblock you because there’s nothing you could say in response to this that could change my mind or anything else for that matter. I’ll only block messages as I don’t care who sees the account. Lastly, I will never forget you or the good/funny times we had but you and I grew to be very different in most ways even though you never seemed to see it. I’ve learned over the years, however, that you can’t ask people to change their ways because doing so is not accepting them as they are and is also asking them to be someone they’re not. You’re you and I’m me and that’s okay.

I “liked” one of his posts and was surprised when he “liked” a pic of the Chinese egg drop soup I made and “laughed” at a funny joke.

Not surprisingly, I didn’t see any sign of him visiting my blog, even though I put the link there. He’s either a hider or simply not interested.