Questions 21 and 22 in 100 questions about me

1. Is your home usually neat or usually messy? Why is that? Do you think it matters? Why or why not?

My home is usually messy. It is much better than it was. My ex husband has a lot of horder tendencies and I am able to now throw out or get rid of whatever I want, so my home is much improved from before. That being said, I do still have kids and people living here so it’s still messy. Lol I do think how neat a home is matters but I don’t think it needs to be neat 100% of the time. I think it’s just as unhealthy for a child to grow up in a home obsessed with cleaning as it would be to grow up in a home that’s filthy. There needs to be a healthy balance.

1. Describe a part of your job or everyday work that you love.

Well this one is a little hard for me because I don’t work, I am physically unable. But a part of my everyday that I love is my kids. I love watching them grow and learn how to be around each other. I love watching them get along but I also love watching them squabble. That’s because there was a time when I was married that their tension would cause other tension and no one felt free to just be themselves and get upset without upsetting him. That they feel free enough and safe enough to fight amongst themselves is amazing.