Why would Christian women want these passive men? in My Life!!!!

( This will not turn into bashing Christians or any religion whatsoever. If you feel the need, then move along)

( I'm a Christian so don't take this the wrong way)

Growing up I've always ran into these type of Christian females that wanted to find this sweet tender hearted guy. That wants to go out for coffee with his sweater tied around his neck. One that is passive and gentle and wants to walk on the beach and watch the sunset. A guy that will always be there for you like a puppy that has missed you all day, One that will jump when you want him to do something for you. A guy that if another man jumped up to fight him that he would just ""Be the bigger man"" and walk away. One that you can run to so that you can talk about your problems because he ALWAYS understands. A guy that has no aggression in him at all.

Well, I'm hear to tell you that this type of guy that you're looking for is really one of your girlfriends.Yes, he might be that nice guy that has your favorite coffee waiting for you when you show up. But I can assure you that if you end up in a relationship with this guy that at first you will be happy with them but in time you will realize how much you really want a MAN. Being this type of guy is not normal. Yes, the man you meet should love the Lord, but he doesn't need to be some borderline homosexual dude. This type of guy will fold once an Alpha male is around him. He will be so upset when Alpha male starts pursuing you; but he won't do anything to stop it except cry to you that he doesn't want you around him. Your passive guy will never be able to please you as a woman or touch you the way a man should. These guys are weirdos without any masculinity at all.

There are plenty of Alpha type Christian men out there that act like real men and love Jesus with their whole heart. A man is supposed to be a protector and should lay his life on the line to protect his woman if needed to be.

I firmly believe that Jesus was a Man's kind of man. And as a Christian man I feel that you should strive to be more like him from being as tough as he was, to being able to show compassion as well as standing up for whats right even though it could cost you everything.

Think about it... And if you really dig this type of guy and marry him, then I hope you never have a change of heart.

Last updated August 18, 2014