About Me in Me Being Me

I am not really that interesting but I am a good person who tries really hard. And I do try to get along with everyone and compermise when I have to. I don’t like people who are stuck up and think they are better then the most famous people or thinks they are above the law like Trump. I am very opionated and say what I think out loud and to your face and it’s always the truth.
I like to spend time alone and I like to listen to my muisic and I like my scented candles and I like my mindless TV. I think the only real TV i do watch is sports and news. I don’t do movies and I don’t think I have gone to a movie since the early 2000’s. Unless I tell you what I want in the way of clothes or things I won’t take or keep them. Like my landlady gave me this coat because she thought I could wear it when I was cold in here but I told her thanks but no. And she coulkdn’t understand why I wouldn’t take it. I never did tell her why but when it comes to me wearing things it has to be made out of a particular material and I have to feel warm in it or comfortable and this coat was neither. I did tell her that I am very picky about what I have and wear and even hubby told her the same.
If I tell you that I like you then that means we have something in common.
I use to drink alcohol like a fish but since my 50th birthday I don’t do that anymore. if I have a drink it will be only one and my go to drink is cider. My favorite is peach but latly it’s been pear. And I do have one bad habit that I need to give up but my brain isn’t there yet and that is smoking. I know it’s bad and I have quit in the past and I will quit again at some point. (I know it’s gross but considering the other things I can do this is the most leagal one)
My favorite color is blue but I am not crazy about the neon colors or the pastals and I do like other colors but white is not my favorite but I will wear it as long as there is something on it. I find white gets dirty too fast.
I have allergies to dogs and cats (the ones that shed) and dust but otherwise I don’t have much wrong with me except my displaced anger issues but they are a lot better because of the medication I take. And in recent times I have only blown up once and that was at the landlady and all she could say or did say was “sorry” and the reason she said that was because I was right in what I said. And since then I have been okay. I think she is not too bright because when she fixes something she does it the cheapest way possible and I know it will break again in a short time. And I don’t trust her because she leave out important information that I need to know like when she will be fixing something. She just opens my door and walks in and I don’t like that. I have told her to call bbefore she wants to come but she says it’s her house and she can come and go as she wants. So I have decided that when she comes back I will be just be locking the door and she will have to call me to come and fix something or to collect the rent. But hubby said he will be giving her the rent. And she is always telling me to clean stuff but I just say it’s on my list. I clean stuff because I want to not because someone tells me. Then this way I have the control. And as far as cutting the grass goes I am not cutting it anymore because it’s all weeds ans she won’t take care of it and I don’t see the sence of cutting weeds when it will just grow back worse then before. And she has this vine thing on her back deck and the leave fall so the weeds down here are covered in leaves and I don’t have a rake so I don’t clean them up. But I wouldn’t anyways because I figure it’s her plant she needs to clean up the mess. And until everything I know needs to be fixed I will have nothing to do with her and I will not be catering to her when she tells me to buy this or that. I figure I have spent something like $200.00 because of her because she wouldn’t supply what I needed. Like the fan she told me to blow on the wooden floor to fry up the water spots and the mold and the pinsol to clean the mold in the bathroom. None of that worked and it’s smells worst then it did at day one. And the kicker is because she won’t let me have the heat at a tempature hubby and I are comfortable at I had to buy one of thise heat vests and I am now getting heat rashes because of it. But the warmth outweights the rashes so I use it till the heat is at 70.
And she has this control thing for the heat and she sets it at three different temaptures 62 all night when she goes to bed, 65 at 5 am when I wake up and 70 at about 7 am and stays till she goes to bed and I am never warm enough or I am too hot and I have told her to just leave it at one tempature and I would pay some of the gas but she won’t give me half the control so I can get a bill and beable to talk to the comany if something goes wrong and she won’t give me a new lease with a rent increase. See for the last 10 years that I have been here she could have raised the rent 2% a year and that would have helped with the heat coists but then that would require a new lease. And I told her she is an idiot for not doing that but she said she wanted to give us a break. But the way I look at it it’s a business thing and bills need to be paid and I told her I am tired of her bitching and complaining of how much stuff is and for her to either sell the house and down size or to raise the rent. But she won’t do that so now I have to live with her cheap ways.
But when she does come back things are going to be my way or I will have some governemnt agency come and tell her and then punish her. I woinder what the police would say when she barges in with out notice? I wonder if her telling them it’s her house will work? But that is an option I can try. But I do know that she has to at least tell me when she will be here and I am going to make sure she does because I am tired of having her come when I am in the middle of doing something. A perfect example is that I saw water dripping from the bottom of the washer and I told to to pease come in 15 minutes when the washer had stopped but what did she do she came when there was still 9 minutes left and told me to stop the washer and I told her no and she should have waited. In the end she did wait but she also told me she didn’t care if the washer had stopped or not. And she ended up telling me that the water on the floor isn’t that serious and it can wait till she got back and I am thinking that it could get worse and then what do I do? But the good thing is that there hasn’t been any water leaking so it must have fixed it’s self. But if I were her I would still look to see if there is still an issue. She won’t even bother to look because she figures if there is nothing wrong why bother to maintain anything.

Onto something else…

Not much is going to happen today just the regular domestic stuff and dinner. I am going to be making this…

https://therecipecritic.com/garlic-butter-shrimp/#wprm-recipe-container-140750
I hope we will like this because I have never made this before so hubby is the guinea pig again and I am thinking white rice with it and some sort of fresh vegetable.

Well, I need to stop here…
Do have a great day…
Be Kind, Be calm, Be Safe and Behave.

Last updated February 07, 2023