Me And People... in Help Me Please

There are just some people in my real life that I just don’t get along with. And my first choice is always just to not be near them. It’s the same with professonals..if there is something you don’t like about them or their work then you find someone else who does a better job. I have done that over the years. And this is why I have a new dentist. I haven’t been for an appoinment yet but when I went and met the secretary she seemed nice and ansered my questions. And this place is easy to get to even if I decided to walk i could but I will take the bus and sky train and then it’s a minute walk.
But sometimes there is a person who you just hate but have to deal with so what I am going to do is just not deal with her anymore and let hubby get things done and tell her to fix them. And she will only allowed to be here when he is here to fix things because then I don’t have to see or deal with her.
It’s going to be hard if she does come and fix things when he isn’t here but I can do this because I am tired of her calling me an idiot and that I need hearing aids and how crapy my hearing is and how I have no idea what I am talking about. But the truth is I do. I always make sure I know the basics and where the problem is. And she tells me I have no idea what I am talking about. That really makes me feel good to be called an idot when I know I am right. No wonder I start to be all negetive and start screaming and getting mad. And because of what she says to me I am starting to feel like maybe I don’t know anything and what I read on the internet is a total lie that the experts are saying is fact? So I will just keep my mouth shut and not say anything and let hubby deal with her. I just hope she listens to him and not tell him he is an idiot. But her being a jack of all trades and master of none of them she is still not really qualified to fix anything becauuse she doesn’t have the right papers to say she knows what she is doing. I just wish the right people would fix these things then at least I know that it will be fixed right and there is a way to get it fixed if something goes wrong. And they know the answers to all of my questions. She just tells me that I don’t need to know some answers and there is a lot of information she leaves out because I don’t need to know it. I think that is wrong because who is she to judge me on what I should and shouldn’t know, it’s up to me to decide if I need to know it or not.

Onto something else…

My son will be comming for dinner this comming Sunday because he has some tax refund papers that need to be signed by someone who doesn’t have the same last name as he does so hubby will be helping him out then we will have whatever I want is going to be for dinner.

Onto something else…

I know I say the same things over and over and I am sorry about that. But it’s the only way I know how to solve the issue at hand and when I do see it somewhere else other then in my head I very often find a way to deal with it and have a happy outcome. And this situation with the idiot landlady is comming to a resolution sooner rather then later. And after reading what you have all said and listening to hubby I am starting to decide what to do, or not to do. So I do thank you for everything you have said and suggested I do.

Onto something else…

Today is back to the normalicy of life and that means the stuff that has piled up like the laundry will get done and the sink full of dishes.
And dinner tonight will be chicken and rice and frozen vegetables or canned vegetables.

Well, I need to stop here…
Do have a great day…
Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe and Behave.

Last updated January 10, 2023