Communication in a relationship in My life

I tell him something.

I don’t like his responses to me.

We go back and forth, and he gets frustrated.

I am annoyed. Why doesn’t he support me?

I am reminded, on my own or by him, that he does support me. He’s the one making more money, plus I’m getting my US permanent residency through marriage to him. I get a lot from him.

So I should be happy. Why bother him with my little issues?

But does that mean I only marry him for money and immigration status? Wft? But if I don’t share myself with him, doesn’t it feel that way?

Maybe I need to share in a different way. Maybe I need to be more tolerant of certain responses from him.

I still don’t like his responses to me though. And I guess he doesn’t like seeing that I’m just always unhappy about this one thing.

So I don’t know what to do.

(Thank you, kind proseboxer who commented to me regarding this issue).