Advice is welcome. in Since OD is shutting down....

I’ve done a lot of thinking over the weekend and plan to call the women’s shelter here in my town and seek advice. I need to find a place to take my car in and check for a tracker and find out what I can do about this person talking to my brother. I explained to my brother over the weekend how I am fearful of this guy and had a protection order against him for threatening to kill me while I was pregnant. My brother just says how the guy is afraid to go to jail and blah blah blah and how I should just unblock him and save all of his crazy bullshit for another protection order. Well, I don’t think that would work because I dropped the last one and they could just say that I shouldn’t have unblocked him to begin with and I just welcomed his crazy so therefore, I just took more abuse for nothing.

I feel like my brother and my friend just want to justify talking to him because they like the drama, not understanding that this person is crazy and dangerous. I’ve asked my brother multiple times to stop talking to him, don’t tell him anything about my private life and he just doesn’t get it. The guy owes thousands in child support and has talked about signing over his rights a million times which tells me that he doesn’t have any more regard for our child than he has for me but there’s always someone on my side to keep engaging in conversation with him.

It’s absolutely maddening to feel that no one really gives a shit if there’s something they say to him that could provoke him to harming us. I’m already really scared because the guy is within walking distance and even the smallest thing could set him off. He’s never going to leave me alone because even with the last protection order where he was told not to speak to my friend, he still did because she wouldn’t fucking block him!

All I know is I need to find some kind of protection from this person and anyone on my side talking to him is his source inside my camp. I have him, his whole family and all his little regular hoes blocked on my Facebook and stay the fuck away from everyone who has anything to do with him but he can’t show me the same respect. I constantly worry about him harming me and I don’t even go outside after dark unless we are getting home from somewhere.

I just find it absurd that even with me telling me brother that I am fearful of this guy, he still finds a way to justify talking to him! Like c’mon have enough respect to stay the fuck out of a situation that has nothing to do with you! It’s not helping matters giving this guy any fucking attention!