People Are Different in Help Me Please

Not mentally deranged or mentally retarded without a good reason and they are all unique in their own way.
Someone here called me something to do with being retarded and that really hurt me.
But then his way of thinking is just based on what he knows and has read so he doesn’t know much about me or my life because he really doesn’t care to know or even asl me questions.
Like he wrote about dating and he really didn’t want any comments about it but the thing that caught me was the fact that he always seems to go for the ones who don’t have the same interests as he does or has issues or have extra baggage like children who hate him.
So I told him he needs to find someone who has the same interests as he has or he will be 80 years old and still single because none of these women are compatible for him.
But me on the other hand am very happy and have everything I want and the relationships I have been in have always been at least 10 years or more. Sure I have had those month long ones but I knew right from the get go that they would never work but it did keep my friends except for the toxic ones I got rid of.
But people are often not too smart when it comes to finding out about others. There is always a back story and they never care to hear it. But if this guy wants and thinks I am not normal then that is on him because he is exactly like me because he refuses to better himself and to learn. And I have also been called a lot worse so it really doesn’t bother me what he or anyone else says because they are no different then me or anyone else. We all do things differently and still get the same results.

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It looks like my son will be moving again because his roommate says he isn’t pulling his weight and he is a pig. He doesn’t clean up after himself and he eats all the food and he doesn’t pay any other bill except his portion of the rent. And she just can’t afford it anymore so between her and me we will be getting him a different place and he will get on disability after he gets tested for autism and then he can also get some help finding a place that will be good for him. And evidently he doesn’t shower and sleeps all day.
So I told her when he comes here for his birthday hubby and I will talk to him and get him to get what needs to be done. At least I can make sure he makes those first phone calls to get the ball rolling.
But before he moved in to this place I told him not to screw up and to do what he was told to do but his laziness got into the way so now he is moving again. He is getting too old to be like this he needs to be doing something and contributing to life and to at least do some volunteer work if nothing else.
The stresses of children…you have to love them no matter what though.

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The spaghetti I made last night turned out really good. Everything was done perfectly and there isn’t much left over so that is good.
And dinner tonight I am not sure what it will be because hubby will have that choice so I need to wait for him to wake up.
And yesterday I did my on line grocery shopping so the stuff should be coming after lunch today so we will have our much needed fruit and vegetables and the other stuff I need.
I told hubby and all he said was “how much” and had a mini heart attack because he knows I always spend too much on stuff and he thinks I should be saving as much money as I can so I have some for later. And he is right but then if I don’t get what I want I will have to wait and I am not one of those who likes to wait for anything.

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Well it’s that time where I need to stop....
Do have a great day…
Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe and Behave.

Last updated March 13, 2022