Dinner with a friend in General musings

Had dinner with an old friend/ex coworker last night. She gave me a lot to think about.. Of course, starting with the usual, you have to end things with F. It's not fair to Hub, or to me, and why do I want to be with someone who treats me the way F does, or allow myself to be spoken to the way he speaks to me. But her point was also that I should leave Hub...she said, "you know you don't feel that way about him." Says I am just using him as a crutch, and would be better on my own..then I could meet someone different than both of them...