People And Alcohol in Help Me Please

yesterday it was my idiot sister in laws birthday. I think she is now 57 and she still dinks like a fish. This is the one thing I don’t like about her and she hasn’t slowed down on her alcohol intake after all these years. I often wonder what her liver and kidneys look like. But then she also has other medical issues and I think it’s what she eats and what she drinks and the lack of movement she still doesn’t do. But the thing is all these medical issues could be fixed with a lot of hard work and living a healthier life style.
When I talked to her she was drunk and kept on repeating herself and I just wanted to say Happy birthday to her and give the phone back to hubby.
But the sad thing is I don’t think she will even remember talking to me because she was so drunk. I wish I could have had a better conversation with her and found out how she is and what is new in her life but that didn’t happen. She just told me what she got for her birthday and she told me about how she is getting a walker because her feet are so bad.
So I told hubby that I really don’t want to spend any time with either of them if they are going to drink to get drunk and then just act stupid. We are suppose to go over to their house for dinner but i just want to go and eat and then leave.
Now I know the real reason why I stopped drinking alcohol and that is because II don’t like me when I have had more then three drinks. And plus I get some wicked headaches. And plus each drink I do have is 150 calories and that is just too much. it’s like 1/3 of my calorie intake and I would rather waste those calories on something that doesn’t make me feel so sick.
Question? is there such a thing as a weekend drunk? or does it matter when the drinking and getting drunk actually happens? I think both my brother in law and his girl friend are alcoholics because he drinks every day and I know she drinks every weekend but then she has also been drinking during the week too but nit often.
But I was pleasant to her and did sort of listen but really didn’t care what she said just because she was so drunk.

Onto something else....

This morning I am going to be going for a short walk and back and then hubby should be awake and wanting breakfast and then I will go have my nap and get ready for tomorrow. I get to go to the dentist and I know it’s not going to be a good visit because me and flossing is not a thing but the brushing is getting better. I am seriously thinking about an electric tooth brush, but I will ask the dentist what he thinks about that.

Onto something else....

Last night I made my famous chilli and it turned out really good. Except I forgot to put the bay leaves in and hubby even added a spice or two so I think that is why it turned out so much better then the last time. And there is lots of left overs which I put in the freezer and will probably give to my son when I see him. Speaking about my son he says he is going to be starting another course in about two week and by the time he is done he will have completed 4 courses and then should be able to get a job in this field of HR. But I don’t think he will last too long because of his past work history. But then he could always surprise me and the rest of the family.

Onto something else....

Tonight for dinner I am thinking chicken legs and potatoes and some sort of frozen vegetable or maybe even carrots.
Well I need to stop here and get ready for my walk.
Do have a great day.....
Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe, and Behave.

Last updated October 04, 2021