14 Years in Help Me Please

Is a long time to be with someone. But then most relationships is more then a life time. They say a life time is 25 years. But is it really? I have seen relationships be more then 50 years and some even lasted 60 years. The only thing that seems to break these relationships up is death and taxes.
Question? Why is it that we only reflect our love at each birthday or anniversary? Why not all year round? Better yet why not every morning we wake up and say something nice about the ones we love? And when was the last time you told someone you loved that you really do love them?
But I wonder if the time spent with children is a lot longer? Like the time I am having with my son is so far 35 years but then the relationships are different so maybe that is why it’s longer?
I think the longest relationship I have had with a friend is more then 20 years and that one is an on line friend. But my real life friends I once had did last 20 years but then they went abbey normal and then they told me I was toxic when in fact it was them and their families that were the toxic ones. And as for me I have been friends with me for 58 years but maybe I should add on the 9 months before because that is when I was created.
I think the best friend you can have that lasts till you die is you. if you can’t like and love yourself then there is no sense to have friends or significant others or even children. But that is just my own personal thoughts.

Onto something else....

Today hubby and I are going to go run some errands and maybe go for dinner to celebrate our 14 years together but then he is also going to the dentist to get his cavities filled. He can’t figure out how he got them especially when he brushes and floss his teeth daily. But then these cavities are from his mothers side of the family so maybe she had this many when she was his age? So maybe going out for dinner will have to wait till another day next week or the week after.
And next weekend my son is coming over for dinner so it will be good to see him. I like this every two weeks because then there is always something to talk about and something new has happened. I find that when I talk to people everyday like my mom there is never much to talk about because it’s the same questions and the same answers and to me that gets really boring.
The thing with me is if I have nothing to say really I prefer to wait till I do have something to say like to ask a question or to get a thought but just to phone and say hi how are you is probably the same answer as yesterday. And to hear someone complain every time is also depressing because there is really nothing you can do to relieve them of their issues.

Onto something else.....
I need to stop here and start thinking about the rest of the day and to get dressed…Too bad I can’t go out naked but then there are rooms for that. better yet going out in my pj’s would be the best because I am just so comfortable. But don’t worry I will be wearing some pants and a shirt and shoes.

Be Kind Be Calm Be Safe and Behave.

Last updated August 23, 2021