I had to laugh in I don't know....

10:30 pm Eric gets home from work. Not unusual so far. I was testy and we bickered a little. Then it hit. 4 days into a new job and he blames me for the job. BLAMES ME for where he is working. OooooooK.

1 am and things are quiet and I'm ready for sleep, but he is still playing on the kindle. "Eric, are you about done. I'm tired. If you aren't, go get on the couch or something." So, he does and I moved to the middle of the bed. He never came back. He said he was only in there 20 minutes, but I had looked at my phone before I moved to the middle of the bed and it was nearly 2.

5 am he comes stomping back into the bedroom, whaps the bathroom door closed, and when he comes out he fumes about how he can't sleep on that couch and he is hurting. "Eric, all you had to do was tell me to move over. You don't have to be nasty."

8:54 am and my shoulder hurts and I can't feel him in bed.......BECAUSE HE IS ON THE COUCH playing the kindle. "Why are you on the couch? You said you were hurting and couldn't sleep on the couch?" "My head hurts." "Well, yeah, your head hurts from playing that damn kindle most of the night."

Ask me where he is sleeping right now at 10:34 am? On. the. couch!

Somewhere in the midst of all this it has dawned on me why he hates the job so much. It's not the money. It's not the insurance. It's that there are no women on his shift! He has no one to flirt with or to have a girlfriend with!