So..no replies in General musings

I had sent F a text after the email, just saying I had SENT one (since he often doesn't check email). Have gotten no reply to either. So I guess he has done what he said he would have after I had helped him fix and paint his house, and been his companion all summer to do the things he wanted to do...When he said, "I could have waitedtill all those things were done, and then just disappeared one day...would that have been better?"