Relationships in Help Me Please

Well it looks like the relationship that I did have with my son is now gone. All I have asked him to do is phone me and he keeps sending me e-mails and I don’t like that because it’s just one sided and I don’t get to say what I really want. But that is okay it’s his lost not mine. So now he has no relationships with the rest of the family either and my mom said she does not want to talk to my son or have anything to do with him and my dad feels the same way. My brother also doesn’t want to do anything for my son and doesn’t care one way or the other is they have a relationship. But it’s kind of hard to have a relationship if there is no communication. And my son is also very ungrateful to everything they have done for him over the years especially all the opportunities they did for him and all the money they spent so he could have a better life. How hard is it to phone people and just say hi and ask how they are doing?
Question? How often do you talk to your parents on the phone? I call my parents every other day because the other day they call me and so I know what is going on in their life and how they are doing. I like that.
And I have another question? How can I stop doing what my son wants me to stop if he doesn’t talk to me and if he won’t even do what i want him to do? He still hasn’t told me when I will get my containers back so I am not even sure if he still has them or not. But whatever…I will just get some more and not be giving him any leftovers when he does come after this virus thing. In fact it has been suggested that I don’t invite him over ever again and I am seriously thinking about that.
I can understand my son’s behaviour towards me and my family if he were on drugs but he isn’t and I can’t understand how someone can be so ungrateful and treat people like they are money trees and just use them for giving stuff and getting free meals and the rest of the time no other communication…I just don’t get it.
I was once like him but then I realized that I need to have some sort of relationship with my family because one day an emergency is going to come up and I will need them and so I just stopped the lying and the not communicating so now I am as truthful as I can be and if I don’t know something I find out. And if I am wrong then I admit it. How hard is that?

Onto something else.....

It’s raining today so that is a good thing because we are not going anywhere. And maybe I will get some wife things done.
So I need to stop here and finish my coffee and then get some more and more…
Do have a great day
Be Kind, Be Calm and Be safe and behave....

Last updated April 30, 2021