Storytime!!! in Since OD is shutting down....

OKay so I have a few things to talk about starting with the guy I’ve been talking to. So I’ve met up with him a couple of times where my daughter sat in my car with the heat on and I stood outside of my car talking to this guy in the cold where I ended up getting pretty sick. Then he apparently went out of town for about 4 days and then tells me he has a job interview tomorrow where we won’t be able to see each other much because he’ll be working. It’s not like he’s made much effort anyway. Well, by the grace of God I got my brother to babysit so that I could go to dinner with him last night.

Well I went to walk in and see him sitting at a table where I notice just how big he was. I didn’t the first couple times I saw him because he was sitting in his car but he is grossly overweight and had a huge hump on his neck. I am not fat shaming anyone because I myself have a few extra pounds but if I would have known he was that big, I wouldn’t have agreed to an actual date. I am just not physically attracted to him. So I sit down and he doesn’t say hi or anything but is bitching that his prescription went up in price and literally went on and on about it for at least 15 minutes! Then, we were talking about his kids and his ex-wife wanting full custody and I asked why. Well instead of giving me the short answer, he went on into a story about something off topic and went on for so long that he forgot where we was going with the story and I never did get a straight answer.

Then, I stupidly asked him to come over for a little while before I had to get my kid where he tells me my house is dirty. Said that I needed to clean, shampoo the carpets, and you could definitely tell a kid lives here. Uh, well that’s because a kid does live here dipshit! He knows that my daughter is mixed and still spent at least 30 minutes saying how he has no use for certain races and shit. I’m getting insulted because my daughter is mixed and he’s sitting there telling me how her race is just useless trash.

This is where it gets interesting. After insulting me, my child, and my home he thought I was going to put out!! He made some comment along the lines that he was just going to take it. At this point I am super uncomfortable. Like, it fucking spooked me to the point of wondering if I should grab my pistol or call 911. After all this I told him I needed to go get my kid and I bailed the fuck out.

He told me the other day after knowing me for a week that he didn’t want my daughter’s Dad around, that he wanted him ‘completely’ out of the picture. Said that he’s not trying to be controlling or tell me what to do but I should go drop child support and forgive the thousands he owes. I realized at this point that not only is he rude and really judgy, but also pretty fucking controlling. I’m sorry but I don’t think it’s his place to make my decisions for me nor is it his place to tell me what to do after 1 fucking week!!

My question is who raised these fucking people and what rock did they crawl out from?!?! My God, how fucking ridiculous!! I’m now somewhat uncomfortable that the guy knows where I live. I don’t even know why the fuck I invited him over. I guess I felt it was the thing to do because he paid for dinner, I really don’t know!!

He also makes hardly any effort to call or text but then gets upset when I don’t either. Well I’m the type of person where I match efforts so whatever you give me is what you are going to get back. There’s also been times where I’ve texted him and he doesn’t respond. I’m also irritated with him saying that we probably won’t be able to hang out once he starts working again like I have nothing to do but sit and worry about him?!! I just don’t get people who want your entire life to revolve around them!! I’ve spent a lot of time bending my life around what others think they need and I don’t do that anymore. I’m busy actually being a parent and making money so my daughter and I can survive.

My Mom watched the kids Saturday night. She called today and apparently my Dad is just as bad as he’s ever been and she’s sorry for ever getting remarried. My Grandma went to the nursing home on Thursday and my Dad was telling her she couldn’t go and that my uncle could handle it. My Mom let him know she was going whether he liked it or not and I guess he tells her that it’s just ‘so hard’ on him every time she’s gone! He’s also said that he’ll kill himself if she ever leaves. She said that she wants him out of her life and that she’d be happy if he would just disappear.

Anyways, there’s plenty more to talk about but I gotta get my kid to bed so I’ll write more later.