Mooch. in Since OD is shutting down....

So my Mom came over and watched my kid last night so I could go dashing and then I went out with my brother and his girlfriend. Wake up this morning and she had drank ALL of my fucking iced coffee, again! I ask her if she drank it and she rudely said she did. I told her that we’ve gone through $500 worth of food in the past 3 weeks and I can’t afford to buy more. She said that basically I owed it to her because she babysat to which I replied that she’s not being a Grandma, but a paid babysitter.

She got in her car and left of course. I know that I’ve probably fucked myself for getting mad because now I’m probably not going to get the money I was promised but I want my $200 back that I’ve helped them with and if I don’t get that back, I’m going to completely cut them out of my daughter’s life. I am just so tired of having to help them. My brother is 40 and I’m 35 and all we’ve ever done is fucking help them! Parents are suppose to help their kids!! They’ve always been broke because my Dad is a shit pile but I’m just sick of dealing with this.

This has happened before where they use and abuse, I finally say something and then when it comes time to pay me back, they completely vanish and stay away for months and then by the time you start talking again, they’re broke and you aren’t getting your money. My brother told them yesterday that I’m concerned I’m not going to get paid back and she said she doesn’t know why I’m saying that!! Uh, you’ve only done it to me my entire life so it’s a valid reason to be worried!

I honestly hate my parents and think they’re both trash. I don’t plan to ask my Mom to watch my daughter ever again because I can’t afford to feed her! All she does is come over to eat and it’s making it almost impossible for me to keep food in the house. I understand if you don’t care about me but I have a small child to keep fed!! We always have plenty of food until that bitch shows up and even with me getting pissy about it a thousand times, she just won’t fucking stop!

I make sure we have enough food for the 2 of us so when someone comes over and eats excessively, I am absolutely freaking out. I’m also sick of how she’ll dirty sink fulls of dirty dishes and won’t bother to wash them so it’s like having another child to clean up after. I made a cake yesterday and instead of putting some on a plate, she grabbed a fork and just started eating it and then left the fork sitting on the counter and didn’t bother to put the cake away so I threw it in the trash this morning.

Then, I made a special trip to the store last Wednesday to buy pies and fudge to bring to Thanksgiving where we weren’t even offered a bite! I would have liked to have a least a couple bites of shit I paid money for out of my fucking pocket. My Dad still has this thing where if you bring something and it’s in his house, it’s his. You aren’t going to get shit. They are just worthless trash human beings and I’m seriously sorry I’m related to them. It’s just disgusting what kind of people they are.

All of it’s like a domino affect. My Dad and little brother have mooched off my Mom to the point where she had nothing and because of that, my older brother and I have always suffered for it. They never have food in their house so when my Mom comes over here, she has to overcompensate because she knows there’s no food when she goes home. I shouldn’t have to suffer and I’ll be dammed if my daughter does.