The family drama in Bittersweet

You may remember reading my drama with my sister and asshat in law.

So my mother texts me about thanksgiving and wants to do a family thing. I said ok. Im working day before or after and didnt want to drive up there. She says she will come down here. Sure. Whatever its fine. Ill cook. No she says, shes got the cooking, shes got the turkey and ham and will make all the pies. So ok come to my house and im making potatoes and rolls and green bean cassarole basically. Ok.

Then im on facebook and see my stepfather post something. And my mom posts complaining about having to make 10 pies and 2 dinners. To which family is consoling her, she mentions the children are fighting so its all on her.

Hold up.
Stop.
what the fuck. A. Im done with them yes so what you do there, is on you. 2. I said i would cook. I prefer my cooking to hers! And its my house. 3. I didnt ASK you to cook anything. shes online whining like im asking her to do anything? I lived for YEARS without the drama and now im being thrust back into it. To which the family responds oh how mature of her. Yes, how mature of me, to refuse to be connected with asshat and sister. Who tried and failed mind you to fuck my life because of the shit they did.

I want SO badly to say something. And im trying very hard not to. Because what is it going to achomplish. My mother will still act like this. Shes still going to whine and bitch. And then she will whine and bitch about me being upset at her actions. Im just done with it. I mean is there any family in the world that dosent cause drama and hell for the rest of their members? This is utter crap. Now i have to host thanksgiving with my family who is talking shit behind my back. Or in this instance damn near in front of it. And i KNOW its a lot behind my back because she would mention it while i was staying there.

Focus on the good. ive got a job. we own a house, we are schooling the kids well, we have our own lives and only need interact during these few moments right?

Or maybe someone will be sick come Thanksgiving and problem solved. She can save her Turkey for her leech and parasite.