Problems with th boy in Im new

We are worried about the boy. We both feel he needs his dad. I am crippled with guilt about not being there all the time to guide him. But work is here and they are there. So we are contemplating him going to school down here. We talked about this at Christmas, but didn't proceed. Maybe now's the time. Problem is that if he comes he will be in for a shock.I live simply, even monastically lol. He will be in for a very structured day. Home from school at 4.00 pm. Rest food. Then study for an hour 4.30 to 6.00. Then dinner some nights, other nights train at the gym before Dinner. It will be great to spend time together, but its not holiday camp here.