Dr... in 2020

So yesterday the bf and I had our tele-appointment with the fertility dr.

Basically just going over stuff and next steps etc. He asked the bf a lot of personal questions about whether he had ever been in a relationship and tried to get someone pregnant and it didn’t work and whether he takes showers or baths and has he ever had a sperm count etc. I know he was kinda just caught off guard but I kinda expected the questions so it is what it is. Basically IVF is my only option really. The dr wants me to go in next week for a saline ultrasound. He wants me to start a diet immediately because losing weight will increase my chances. He wants me to lose like 50 lbs. I’m not sure that will happen, but my first step is to really cut out the carbs. And he wants me to take prenatal vitamins, vitamin d, and folate stuff. And eventually get off the muscle relaxer, antiinflammatory, and xanax that I currently take. This is going to suck.

The bf doesn’t really mind the dieting bc he cares more about how he looks in general. I just love bread… all the bread.