hard no to Jason in Dating in 2020

So I didn’t take a break yet from online dating and there are many more men I could write about and still might, but this was tonight’s encounter. He matched with me on Bumble said I had beautiful eyes…we were really hitting it off. Topic moved into talk of affection and then beyond to questions on sex which was a turn off for me to bring up so soon, but I know you’ll say it’s 2020 don’t be a prude…anyway he says he wants openess and fun in the bedroom. I said you gotta be more specific. He wanted to lick my asshole he loves ass. I’ve never experienced that nor thought about it and said so. Then he said he liked role play and so do I accept for one and it was his favorite…daddy daughter. I get it I know it’s a thing, but I want to be treated as a woman in bed and not a child. It creeps me out…if you’re into hey go for it, but nope hard no for me. I said so and said If it’s a deal breaker I’d understand and it was but we wished each other well like adults and moved on.