A New Me ⋅ 44 ⋅
Mother of three. 2 living boys and 1 heavenly girl. Separated on the verge of divorce. Only recently started blogging again because of the separation. Originally from OpenDiary where I blogged faithfully until shortly after meeting my husband. Interests: Reading trashy romance novels, the paranormal, all things Marvel and Disney, Movie lover and TV watcher. Childhood Cancer advocate. Scrapbooker and all around crafty person. I love making things for people and giving thoughtful gifts.
When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.
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Surprise entry in The day to day
Sigh. Dating is so hard. Why is it so hard? I met someone this past weekend and we spent it having sex, snuggling and just being together. He was great at making sure I got off everytime. He actu...
Omfg in The day to day
Guy I’ve been talking to that wasn’t glued to his phone? Yeah it’s driving me insane. He actually apologized yesterday for not being more attentive. And then went 17 hours before sending me a tex...
Still out here in The day to day
I didn’t realize it’s been so long since I updated. Still on the dating train. The guy I wrote the last entry about ended up being a bust. Since then I’ve talked to a dozen guys. Met a few. Have ...
EFF ME. in The day to day
Well I found someone I was interested in again. We started talking last Saturday. Within a couple of days he was very much interested in me and wanted to turn his dating profile to hidden so he c...
Moving on.. in The day to day
So in addition to the original dating apps I was doing, I had two friends suggest FB dating. I figured why the fuck not. I put in my little bio that if you are ultra conservative, religious or a...
FML in The day to day
I swear why when things are going well do they suddenly just stop and hit the fan. Ugh. So the guy I had been talking to for 3 weeks now, stopped texting on Thursday morning. Like he sent the goo...
Match or no match... in The day to day
I’ve been on eHarmony and Match for a little over a week now. I’ve had several “likes” and I’ve reciprocated them back. I’ve initiated conversation even though that goes against my nature. Not ge...
Uh oh, look who jumped into the dating pool! in The day to day
That’d be me. It’s been awhile since I wrote an entry here. Looks like almost a year. Had to go back and read my last entry. Things with the ex are going good. We are on good terms. Nothing out o...
If it's not one thing, it's another in The day to day
Why are baby daddy’s so annoying? That’s what I’m going to call my ex from now on anytime he does stupid shit to annoy me. So basically all the time. Wednesday he gets the kids like normal. B doe...
Straight outta quarantine in The day to day
A and I got tested on Tuesday for COVID which was day 6 for us in quarantine. That was a whole experience. The school system here has testing at the area middle and high schools starting at 3 pm ...
Quarantine day 2 in The day to day
Not a lot to report. Took B to school this morning. Came back and A and I started our day. His first NTI class wasn’t until 10 am. He mostly played on the laptop until his first class. Once his f...
Quarantine Day 1 in The day to day
Welp, A may have tested negative for COVID on Tuesday but we had a kid and a staff member at work test positive and he was in contact with both of them 48 hrs prior to testing positive. So now he...
Finally, an entry not about my ex... in The day to day
Sitting here unable to sleep as I listen to A wheeze as he breathes and sleeps. Earlier this evening, he said he was cold and I could hear a slight wheeze as he breathed. I took his temperature a...
Fucking hell in The day to day
I hate that I only seem to write in here when things are going bad. But god damn. Things seem to be going fine with my ex and then out of the blue I get a text that just sends my blood pressure t...
It's officially official. in The day to day
I am a divorced woman. The paralegal emailed me exactly when it had been 60 days to say she was filing the necessary paperwork with the court. I got notification on Wednesday that the divorce dec...
Annoyed* in The day to day
Wednesday the boys went to their dad’s like they always do. I got a text from my ex about an hour and a half after he got them. He said that I needed to come get A, because he had just broken the...
A few things.. in The day to day
Closing in on 30 days of the divorce being filed, which means only 30 more until I get the divorce decree! Pretty super excited about it to be honest. Maybe then I can finally focus on me for a c...
Finally in The day to day
Nothing particularly exciting or new to report. Except I signed those divorce papers! Now for my ex to go in and sign. Once that is done and they file them with the court we wait 60 days. Then I ...
Thursday is the day. in The day to day
Thursday I go and sign the divorce papers. Then they will contact my ex and he will go in and sign. After that the papers will get filed with the court and we wait 60 days to get the divorce decr...
Insert clever title here. in The day to day
I never responded to my ex’s text last night about being mature adults and us all going to A’s games together. This morning I sent him an email. It basically said that hopefully one day we can al...
Am I being ridiculous? in The day to day
A is starting Wee ball this week. Practice is Thursday. I told my ex and also told him that I should know the game schedule by Friday show we could split them up. He was confused by what I meant....
Hot mess express in The day to day
My ex came to get the boys tonight and will be bringing them back on Sunday evening. I instantly became a hot mess when he came to get them. He’s been getting them for months on Saturday until Su...
Say what?! in The day to day
Well. I’m shocked. Shocked I tell you. My ex came to the house to give me my half of the third stimulus and see the boys. Tonight is his normal night to get them but he has been feeling poorly an...
Another day, another eye roll. in The day to day
My ex sent a text on Sunday night saying he wasn’t sure if he was going to be able to keep the kids on Wednesday overnight because he had an early doctor appointment the next day. I replied and a...
It's about to be all kinds of contested up in here. in The day to day
I got a couple of different lawyer’s names to look into about the contested divorce. I’m waiting to hear back from the lawyer I met with Thursday for more names from their office. Then I will be ...