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so the last thing evan said before hanging up was ‘i’m done’. and when he’s said that in the past he’s meant w/ everything. so i’ve called him. i’ve texted him and told him to please call or te...

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we’re still better but. he spiked out today and i dont’ completely get why. he.........it was bigger than usual. he started out by talking about. no well i called him after he’d called me and hun...

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we’re better. um. after sending him angry texts last night [wed.]. well we talked about some things. and um. i asked him if i deserve to be defended. and he said i do. which is one of the things ...

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or it will be tom. since a friend of mine um left. us. um and though iit’s still sad and always will be i’m at a better place w/ this . i talked to my dr. about it and she helped. although now th...

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get out of my situato. except i can’t bc it’s not in my control.to. i don’t want to put w/ amber anymore and i don’t want to give her a chance or any more time to hurt me. more than she already h...

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yes more on this. um. i’m at odds w/ him bc he’s not giving me exactly what i want. which is to. 1: agree w. me 2: tell me fuking verbatim that i don’t deserve to be treated this way. i’m referri...

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and more news. so sometime soon steph, jenn, amber, alex, nick, my mom and i are all going to have a meeting about this ebt thing. and nick wants me to say how i feel. which i mean is reasonable...

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um. so last night he calls. a few times. i’m busy so can’t answer. and then i call him back or he calls me idr. we only talk for 10 mins. he starts in w/ telling me he won’t or doesn’t want to or...

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so last night at 10; 20 evan calls. he apologises for what happened earlier. he said something that he’d been mean or something. again my memory sucks so i get confused as to what went on. and u...

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ya know. i was reading a reply to a post on a message board i’m a part of. have been a part of it for almost 10 yrs. anyway. and it said something about how when people who are raped blame oursel...

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‘so evan spiked out again. somewhat at me. i love him but my god.........if there was one thing i could change it would be that. like i don’t mind if he does it. solong as i don’t have to hear ab...

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ya know. i’m a small lady. i’m delicate. [however i can also lift a 50lb. suitcase]. but that doesn’t. didn’t. give him an excuse to rape me. it’s not like ‘oh she’s small she won’t fight back’. ...

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so apparently when we were on the phone last night evan’s roommate came back. which i either A: forgot or 2: didn’t know untill he told me today. so yeah it all worked out.

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i learned about this in sociology. so basically for me. whenever something big happens i don’t do as well as i should w/ things. or i stop doing certain things. whenever there’s a change a big ch...

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but i was i know i was. if i wasn’t............if i hadn’t been. i wouldn’t feel the way i do about it. i wouldn’t have flashbacks. or body memories. or the anger. i’m just in denial right now. a...

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i want. to have it out w/ amber. i want. to call her and tell her legally she’s not allowed to move me. that um. well basically i want todo to her what she did to me. no i don’t mean threaten her...

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premeditated i mean. i don’t. know if it was or not the 2nd one. but apparently control is a form of violence and um rape is about control, so. that in turn makes it violent even though. mine was...

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yeah soforwell ever since tues. night really evan’s been staying w/another friend of his. and solast night when we’re talking he says that one of his roommates is worried cause they can’t find th...

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evan. omygod. it just keeps getting better. not perfect but better. so he called like. at 9 and we talked for a bit about what i don’t remember. right so then. oh so he told me he was going to be...

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to be clear no evan didn’t rape me. he never has. although one night a littleover 2 yrs. ago we almost had sex completely consensual. i was ready and i got all excited and then i. decided i wasn’...

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so i was on this site called aphrodite wounded not sure how many people are familiar. w/ it. and it said something about how some people think maybe if they’d been better in their relationships. ...

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see at least when as soon as the person sees you they rape you. at least like. you don’t have to wonder. they don’t have to keep you under false pretenses for however long. the other way is manip...

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yeah so last night um if i remember correctly. evan called. we talked for 10 mins. and the first thing he says is you missed your chance. and i was already frustrated and all twisted inside. and ...

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i failed to mention this untill now. so much has happened and so much keeps happening. yeah so jennifer the yelling lady’s pregnant. idk when she’s due but i probably won’t see her again untill j...

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‘so last night steph told me how the new ebt’s going to work. So apparently she’s going to keep the card which i’m fine w/. but what i’m not fine w/ is her using it to purchase my groceries. I’ll...

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